Apple CEO Cook out of the closet, why he was gay?

Last night, Apple CEO Tim. Cook in "Business Week" Web site published an article called, "I am very proud of being gay." For Cook out of the closet, someone jokingly to "finally understand why the iPhone (mobile Internet) 6plus easy to bend," and in addition, have not seen the ridicule, condemnation and defections remarks. For gay malice, in science and technology chiefs who stop there, I was somewhat pleased. 

But then I thought, for to do is an ordinary mortal beings out of the closet it? Or is your family and friends out of the closet beside it? People's attitude is not it will be a 360-degree turn without dead ends, the moment someone standing on the highest point of moral condemnation and even abusive, may be "on the fence" and "sound" has been regarded as the most moderate attitude. 

We degree of tolerance for others it seems inevitable that people subject to social status, economic status and even external attractiveness, which is from the Cook out of the closet can see reflected events and see the whole picture. For the middle class in the society and the people in the bottom of society, the challenge to be faced after emerging out of the closet, I do not know how much courage and determination in order to accumulate teeth say "I am very proud." That socially marginalized group? I've seen too many examples of them labeled "abnormal" and "sick" label a. Heartache. 

This is human nature, I do not deny that our contrary to our usual ways of knowing things always cherish the natural conflict. But this is not worthy of praise humanity, relatively gay, such a group is more likely "sick." 

In fact, back in 1973, the American Psychological Association, the American Psychiatric Association had homosexuality since the removal of disease classification system; April 20, 2001, "China Classification and diagnostic criteria for mental disorders," third edition published in diagnostic criteria has been described homosexual sexual activity is not necessarily abnormal psychology, since homosexuality is no longer classified as pathological. 

For still and "homosexuality is a disease," this view fated people, filling them with Daigo may also wish to feed them with the dross. Can not be called ignorant, they are just narrow-minded in their limited dimension in life, this is the topic of most of their homosexuality width insights. 

This phenomenon is called "homophobia", symptoms hold prejudices against homosexuality, like psychological discrimination, hate and so on. In fact, homophobia is not only occurs in heterosexual men, and they will have among homosexuals, such as the US politicians McCarthy and Hoover, in order to conceal their sexual orientation, large-scale purge of homosexuality. 

Gay or not does not determine the basic properties of the fear of the crowd with the disease, but by Canadian psychologists found that levels of childhood intelligence (IQ) poor people are most likely to be racist or adult suffering from homophobia, and logical reasoning ability of poor people is also very likely to become homophobia. 

In addition to the IQ-related, and this is reflected in the level of emotional intelligence. 

Even if a lot of people against nature cries gay, but since ancient times, Liu Xin DONG Xian "broken sleeve of addiction," the story, and, according to records, human ancestors ape had appeared homosexual sex. Gay has never been eliminated in the evolution of reason, studies have found that genetic and genes. This interpretation is widely recognized, and I think it might be because such an interpretation can minimize conflict between people of different sexual orientation. 

Psychology also on the causes of homosexuality made ​​a lot of explanation. 

From the point of view of psychoanalysis, Freud believed that homosexuality is psychosexual stages of development fixing performance. 3-5-year-old human psychological development during the critical period, at this stage, children will produce sexual desire heterosexual parents instinct, while same-sex parents produce hostile feeling. If we can get through this period, then the individual's sexual orientation can be normal development, otherwise the individual will likely paraphilia. 

From the perspective of behaviorism, homosexuality is a form more adaptation and learning process, mainly through rewards and punishment to shape the way. For example, some individuals encounter in heterosexual experience setbacks in the gay experience obtained met, then TA is likely to become gay. Or, if an individual due to environmental restrictions (such as for boys, girls, military, etc.), TA is the first sexual behavior caused by homosexual and experience the intense pleasure, then it is possible to TA's and gay sex establish a connection between so become gay. This theory may well explain some of the phenomenon of sudden changes in sexual orientation. 

From the neurophysiological point of view, some studies show that twins, identical twins gay total fat was significantly higher than fraternal twins. Robinson et al (2000) study of the proportion of gay men's index finger and middle finger showed that the proportion of gay men's index finger and middle finger is significantly less than heterosexual men. Previous studies showed that while the proportion of the index finger and middle finger with prenatal androgen levels were negatively correlated with estrogen levels were positively correlated. Thus indirectly indicate high levels of prenatal androgens easily lead to homosexuality. 

Although any theory can not fully explain this phenomenon, but together these different interpretations, but can help us better see the causes of homosexuality. 

In addition to studying homosexuality from a scientific point of view, I am more respected in the literary and film works among a group of people to understand this. For example, the movie "I love you, Maurice," as in able to withstand great suffering for love and freedom lovers, at least allows you to set aside stereotypes of gay characters, experience beyond the limitations of the secular vision of love and sex. Love unbounded, where they occur, are worth singing. 

Majority of the world, each of which has its presence rationality, homosexuality is not worth your strange looks. Some people are gay, some fat, some people are not smart enough, it was lonely ...... everyone has one or more problems. And as you are not able to accept their presence, is not able to work with problems coexist and live a better life maximum, which is related to the degree of civilized nations, more civilized and the degree of your thoughts.